So last week, I made a comment on my facebook page saying that I was formulating a training plan for this summer, and almost immediately a few people decided that to do such a thing was sheer folly. It was a bit disheartening. I don't like being told I can't, or shouldn't do something. It's quite the motivator.
After a little soul searching, and talking with some good cycling friends who a) know me and b) have had kids themselves, I am back on track. It IS perfectly reasonable to expect to be ready for a mere 47-mile ride by the first weekend in August. Here's the plan, such that it is:
Base training: Janurary through April (should end in March, but I'm going to just try and maintain my current fitness up until the birth -thats all I can safely and reasonably do. However, there is no medical reason, at this point, to not expect to maintain my current fitness level).
Due date: April 22, 2009 (Dr. will allow me to go a week past due date prior to induction, which explains the date ranges below). If that happens, I'll try like hell to get labor going on its own). Lots of healthy eating, lots of water, as much sleep & rest as the baby will allow.
2 weeks after birth (May 5 -12): simple, easy stretching. Some light walking. Just get moving a little bit, within reason. We'll see how the body feels, and what I can do with the baby. Really, sleep will still be most imporant. That probably wont change for some time, really.
3 weeks after birth (May 12-19): lots of rest, if possible. More walking - longer walks, walking hills, if possible. Walks in the woods. some leg lifts, perhaps, if I can take it. Maybe a little light garden work.
Weeks 4 & 5 after birth (May 19-26 to June 2): start more heavy "exercise". Longer walks, with jogging mixed in for short bursts, and increasing from there. Mom & baby exercise class at 6 weeks. Try to get on the bike trainer.
6 weeks after due date: ~ June 1, 2009 (I've been told it takes about 6 weeks, on average, for a woman to recover from giving birth. However, most very active/athletic women I know have bounced back in as little as 4 weeks, with no C-section. A C-section would obviously delay this a bit). So I'm going with the average here, and am not expecting miracles. But June 1 is my goal for getting back on the bike, and if that isn't yet comfortable, I'll start jogging, and more hiking with the baby. Walking hills several times a day.
Mom & Baby Yoga at Mothers & Company. Maybe a stroller strides program (most places stipulate a min. 6 month age for the baby).
Training June 1 - August 1: 2 months to work up to 47 miles. Judging from past training logs, this should not be an issue. The only down side is that this is the first year Ken & I wont be training together at the same time - we'll each have to do it on our own, trading off who gets to spend time with Kid. But hopefully with maintaining my cardio up until delivery, I'll have a good solid base to start with. Better than in some years past, in fact.
At this point, I've already been warned for expecting too much of myself. I've been told I wont want to be apart from the baby. I've been told I wont want to exercise. I've been told I wont be able to exercise. Let me address each of these warnings.
Expecting too much of myself: exercise is a formulated part of my postpartum plan to avoid post partum depression. We've timed the baby's birth for a time of year when the weather should be improving, the days getting warmer & longer. Getting out, getting fresh air, getting sunlight for vitamin D production - all of these will only help me. If the weather cooperates, I can take the baby with me. Otherwise, Ken will get to bond with the baby. Exercise actually INCREASES your energy level, helps you sleep better & more soundly, releives stress, and makes you feel BETTER (thanks, endorphins). Even 10 or 15 minutes a day in the beginning will generate these effects. The faster I get the blood moving, the faster I'll loose the baby weight, the more comfortable in my own skin I will be. If I don't hit my PMC goal, well, OK. But if I don't exercise at all? Can you imagine me without exercise? It's not a pretty picture, and no one is happy. If I don't have a plan, my chances for success are absolutely zero. Whereas if I have plan, I'm much more likely to succeed - it's part of setting myself up for success. But if I don't even TRY, then there is no possible path for success. I can only dissappoint myself if I don't even bother to try.
Being away from the baby: Ken needs one on one time with baby to bond. It's his child too. While I need to learn how to be a mom, he also needs how to be a dad - his own way. He can't do that if I'm in the house, waiting for something to come up so he can hand the baby off & say "I don't know what to do." He can figure it out (just like I'll have to), it's his baby, and they'll develop their own relationship. It will be special, and all theirs. He can also learn to read the baby's cues, and be a source of comfort for the kid. Granted, I am the food source, but if I nurse before heading out to exercise, I'll be more comfortable while exercising, and the baby should be good to go for at least an hour, hopefully longer. I'll only need a half-hour in the beginning. Also, taking time for myself - even 15 minutes - has been proven to reduce the likelihood for postpartum depression. And after the exercise, I know I'll be much more able to deal with providing for the baby. Later on, after about 2 months, I'll be able to pump & Ken can give a bottle to the baby. We already have a top of the line pump - same type the hospitals use. Bonus: I can take that time to take the dogs with me walking, hiking, jogging. They'll need some individual time to help them adjust. As Ken & I trade off exercise time, we'll trade off the kid for the dogs. Should help make everyone's life easier.
I know I'll need to sleep. I'll sleep when the baby sleeps. For those of you who know me, you know I could care less about a neat & orderly house. It's not high on my list of priorities, and in the beginning (the hardest/most stressful part), the kid wont be ABLE to get into anything - it'll pretty much stay where I put it. The only real thing I worry about is laundry - with deciding to use cloth diapers, laundry will be a priority. Fine - I'll put the laundry prior to a nap, and hang it out after the nap, after feeding, after burping & changing. Or I'll do a load each night while I sleep so it's ready to hang out in the morning. It CAN be done. I'll shower before Ken goes to work. With wearing the baby around the house, I hope to be able to get some basic stuff done with both hands, while simultaneously strengthening my back and leg muscles.
I've obviously given this a lot of thought. This ride is 1/3 of the length of the ride we did last year, and I've made an effort to maintain my fitness level since then. As a friend said, I am way more fit than many people - pregnant or otherwise. For a pregnant woman, I'm in amazing shape. This is how I planned my pregnancy, and it's worked so far. I've had no issues with back pain in the past 4 or 5 months, despite gaining baby weight. I've lost no stamina (ask Ken - I took him XC skiing last weekend for an hour and a half). I have no issues with increased blood pressure (it's actually slightly lower than "normal"). My diet is probably better than it's been in years, by sheer necessity. I've had no edema issues (swelling of the hands & feet) - no swollen ankles, very few leg cramps. Amazingly, my balance seems to be completely unaffected, because as my center of gravity has shifted, so has my muscle tone - it's kept up with it because I keep doing squats & exercising - the body adapts. Basically no pregnancy complaints at all since passing the 1st trimester. I'm fine, and I'm exactly where I had hoped to be at this point.
If I hadn't planned for this since the beginning, it never would have happened. See what I mean?